There is simply no way for anyone of you to avoid any sort of legal action whenever you are choosing to just not pay any of your debt that has been accruing now for so long. Once legal action has begun there is normally no other way for you to get out of having to pay off your creditors, unless there is some sort of prearrangement made by both you and your creditor but that arrangement has absolutely got to always be accomplished monthly and on time.
You have a responsibility whenever you purchase something via your favorite credit card or however you are choosing to make the purchase on some type of credit. Too many people are running up their credit cards and some people actually know up front that there is never any way possible that they will ever have the ability to pay off any kind of debt such as credit cards.
If you can come up with some type of financial plan for yourself and for the future of your children then you will be much better off in the long run. There are financial advisors in your local bank branch or you could find yourself one on the internet, that could provide you with plenty of helpful information regarding debt and all of the different things you can do to help your current situation that you have gotten yourself into throughout the years.
Take full responsibility for every action that you make, especially your financial choices. By doing so you are going to be teaching all of your children the appropriate way to handle their finances as they grow older into adulthood. You can teach them helpful things about not acquiring too much debt as they grow older and you will really be providing them with the most beneficial advice possible.
Allow them to ask you questions about debt and anything concerning it, so that they can gain more and more helpful knowledge from their intelligent and very wise parent, that they will thank and look up to forever because of such love and tremendous guidance. Debt does not have to be a big bad monster, if you can control your spending and be smart with all of your choices, along with keeping up on all of your monthly payments, your finances should remain in place and your future seems bright.